Are ALL military wives like this?

The hardest thing since we moved away from home is making friends who I can TRUST. Almost the women I have met here are so catty and seem to really enjoy trying to create drama. Here's my little story if you will.... After asking a "friend" for advice on a certain extremely difficult subject (in confidence) that had to deal with another friend, it gets back to that person that I'm talking bad about her and her family which was sooooo far from the case. I was upset she got the information the way she did but happy she got it none the less. It's just so depressing that I confided in a person who I thought was a good friend and they couldn't respect me enough to keep their mouth shut. This incident traveled from 4 females until it got to the person who it had to do with. Is there nothing better to do then to talk about other people? sheesh! Sighhhhh.... I'll never have friends like I do back home. I've learned to keep my mouth shut and not trust anyone else here like I did with that person. Bottom line is I'm 28 years old, I'm a mom, I DO NOT DO DRAMA!